The saying by Bharathidasan, "A Good Family is like a University" reminds us that strong families
are the foundation of a good society. When family life is happy and healthy, society tends to
thrive. Unfortunately, alcohol addiction has become a significant threat to family harmony.
This family was once a picture of happiness. The husband, wife, their son, and daughter lived
peacefully together and enjoyed a fulfilling life. However, everything changed when the husband,
at thirty-four years old, began drinking alcohol socially with friends. What started as
occasional drinking quickly turned into a daily habit. This new routine led to fights and
constant conflict at home, creating an atmosphere of fear and anxiety.
As his drinking increased, so did his distrust. He started to suspect his wife was unfaithful.
This distrust grew as he drank more and watched inappropriate films, which only made his
suspicions worse. He started sharing inappropriate details about his wife with his friends,
discussing her physical appearance and creating a rift that caused many of his friends to
distance themselves from him. His behavior worsened to the point where he would lash out at his
children over minor issues, treating everyone in the family with harshness.
Concerned for their safety and well-being, the family decided to seek mental health help at Athma
Mind Care hospitals.
At Athma, the Psychiatrist and a mental health counsellor spoke with the husband, uncovering
deep-seated issues from his past. They found that when he was younger, some married women had
expressed attraction to him, which left a lasting impact on his beliefs about relationships. As
a result, he came to believe that if a marriage was facing difficulties, the wife might be
unfaithful.
The family decided to seek mental health care, and he began de-addiction treatment along with
psychotherapy to help reduce his suspicious thoughts. To support his recovery, the mental health
team also provided family counselling, encouraging his loved ones to actively participate in the
process. He was prescribed medication and received therapy for six months. With continuous
guidance, he gradually returned to a healthier way of living over the course of a year.
Today, he is once again enjoying life with his family, showing that healing is possible with
understanding and support. Stories like this remind us that when someone in distress receives
compassion and help at the right time, they can recover from even the toughest challenges.